Monday, March 31, 2008
Just in case you want to know...
1. I was born in San Francisco, CA on March 16, 1978 (once again reminded that I'm 30!)
2. I've lived in Vermillion, SD (where my parents started a church)
3. Champaign, IL (Dad in grad school)
4. Boulder, CO (Only for a summer)
5. Huntsville, AL (Most of my growing up years)
6. Auburn, AL (A great place to get a degree - War Eagle!)
7. Tybee Island, GA (Summer Camp Counselor)
8. Madison, AL (with my wonderful husband, Garet)
9. Yes, it was really cold in South Dakota, but we could make some killer snowmen and forts.
10. My parents took us all over the country when I was growing up and instilled in me a love for travel.
11. I've been to 41 states.
12. Most of the ones left are in the pacific northwest. I've got some plans to go out there.
13. I've been to Europe twice - 7 countries.
14. I have two kids
15. Levi is 2 and a half
16. He loves Cars (Lightening McQueen), Diego and Thomas (in that order).
17. We have started potty training - I'll have a fun post about this soon.
18. Kara is 5 months.
19. She cries a lot, but we love her to pieces.
20. She needs to gain some weight - pray for her!
21. I haven't had very many jobs in my life.
22. Babysitting
23. Tutored AU athletes while in college - good times.
24. Had an internship on some government space program - it was a joke.
25. First real job was at Tetra Tech EC (also know as Foster Wheeler and just plain Tetra Tech while I worked there).
26. I was a cost analyst which meant I managed the financial side of our contracts. I loved it, but
27. I loved talking with the ladies I worked with more.
28. Went part time to stay at home with Levi.
29. I considered myself as having a full-time AND a part-time job.
30. Eventually left Tetra Tech and started working at my church.
31. I now head up the Life Group Ministry at my church - talk about a 180!
32. I love it though.
33. We recently went to a conference as a staff (a later post) and I learned way too much about my co-workers!
34. My BFF on staff, Mary (the children's minister) and I stayed up until 3:00 AM talking. What was I thinking?!?! I had a night away from the kids and I didn't sleep! Mary's worth it :).
35. I love working with people now. I still like numbers though.
36. I have this bad habit of finding "projects" for Garet to do around the house.
37. Somehow he goes along with them.
38. We are going on 3 months on our latest project (flooring). Pray for us.
39. We host a Life Group at our house and they have seen our slow pain.
40. Speaking of Life Groups, I absolutely love mine.
41. We are blessed with so many good friends here.
42. They take care of us, and more importantly, they cook for us.
43. We go to the beach together every year - how cool is that?
44. Our group used to be the mwok (married w/o kids group). Now we have lots and lots of kids - we are out of control!
45. Speaking of friends, we have some fabulous friends from Auburn.
46. Garet and I were both lucky to have a very close knit group of friends from the BCM.
47. Our wedding was one big Auburn Party!
48. Garet and I met and got engaged at Auburn.
49. I hope our kids go there.
50. On to my family.
51. I have two parents who are still married (32 years!)
52. Many of my friends have divorced parents and that makes me sad.
53. My parents instilled in me a strong work ethic, but did not instill in me the need to be on time (sorry mom and dad).
54. My brother isn't on time either.
55. He lives in Maryland which is far away and I wish he was closer.
56. He is married to a cool girl named, Kristen (if you know my maiden name, this will make you smile).
57. Kristen is one of the most artistic people I know. I'll have to show off some of her work sometime.
58. Brian is in grad school and Kristen is a teacher.
59. I have 2 sister-in-laws on Garet's side - Kelly & Keri.
60. They are super and really treat me like I'm their real sister - I love that.
61. They are both married to Shawn & Brian, respectivly.
62. I have 3 nephews and 2 nieces on that side. Somehow we got a great photo from 7 kids under 8!!
63. Both of Garet's sister's families live far away too - I wish they were closer.
64. I do not hate my in-laws - I couldn't love them more!
65. From day one, they have treated me like I was their own child.
66. Don & Kathy (Garet's parents) live close, so that is nice.
67. My hobbies are: scrapbooking
68. and researching travel ideas (which I do quite frequently).
69. If you know me well, I've drilled you for vacation ideas.
70. Kara is 5 months old and already been in 8 states if that tells you anything.
71. One of the places we go each year has to be somewhere new.
72. This year we are hoping that it will be the Dominican Republic for my 30th birthday celebration (yes, it will be late). Hopefully it will work out!!
73. I have curly hair
74. Sometimes it gets out of control
75. People don't forget me. I choose to believe it is because of the hair, but I'm probably fooling myself.
76. We hope to have at least one more child - maybe two.
77. It may be through adoption - our friends the Schroders and Boyacheks have opened our eyes to this idea.
78. We don't see ourselves as southerners long-term.
79. We feel led to move west at some point - not sure when.
80. I am an awful housekeeper.
81. I really try to keep up with it, but I just can't win.
82. Garet asked me if I could hire one person, would it be a cook? I said no, a housekeeper.
83. Maybe that's what I'll ask for when I turn 31.
84. In high school I was on the flag corp.
85. I was in my element on the field.
86. I can still do several of my routines and all the tosses. I just can't part with my flag!
87. I played the clarinet for 7 years.
88. For some reason I was good at it - too bad I hated it!
89. I wish I could sing like Michelle Britt. If you know her, you know what I mean!
90. I am going to be a rocker in heaven and I'm going to be good.
91. I should start selling tickets now and then I could pay for my housekeeper.
92. Garet and I love to dance - there just aren't enough opportunities!
93. I played Volleyball in Middle School. I was not good at it.
94. I love working out, but I am not a good athlete.
95. I would change my knees if I could - they bow in and that makes it difficult to run!
96. I skiied while I was pregnant with Levi (I didn't know!).
97. I thought the words to "Take me down to Paradise City" were "Take me down to the very last city". Garet thinks that is really funny for some reason
98. I love to watch HGTV and TLC
99. My favorite show is Amazing Race. I wish Garet and I could be on there!
100. Last, but certainly not least, I love the Lord. I am forgiven and strive to live a life that is honoring to Him. This is a daily struggle, but I press on.
Whew! It took Ashley 2 hours and me 20 minutes - I have way too much useless info in my head at any given moment!
Now it's my turn...I tag Jan (because I know she will do it :), Wallace (because he lives in Ireland), Dan & Ellen (because they are my new neighbors, but are probably too busy packing), and Bill & Melodie (because I know they will have at least 100 things to share about their trip!).
Sunday, March 30, 2008
We really need help in the kitchen
Friday, March 28, 2008
Life Motto
I had one really awful year around 2004. Mostly due to inexperience, but still my fault, I messed up on a contract, bad. When it came time for my review, my supervisor sat me down and said that his assessment of me was this: "I am always ready to learn although I do not always like being taught" - a quote by Winston Churchill. I have thought about this many, many times over the past few years, because it is me to a T. I have no problems running full force into the great unknown and learning things for myself (tripping and falling) along the way. I'm hoping now that I'm older (ie: in my 30s!), I slow down and listen to people more. I'll still be me, but maybe I won't stumble so much along the way.
Thursday, March 27, 2008
Curly Hair?
So, on to my Mom and Aunt Ruth Ann. Although they have tried over the years to keep their curly locks more straight, there is no denying that the curly headed gene was passed on to them. Here they are at my brother's wedding:
Next, my Mom had my brother and I and my Aunt had twin boys. All 4 of us have curly hair. But, what makes this story even more unique is that my twin cousins are half Chinese. Have you ever seen a Chinese person with curly hair? They exist - my cousins are living proof. If that isn't a dominant gene, I don't know what is. Here is a picture of the 4 of us with our spouses at Brian's wedding:
And a more recent one of us in Maryland last month:Since you can't see the boys hair as well in these pictures, here's one that shows off their curls. Does anyone else think it is strange that there is a bouquet of flowers in front of them?
Now, there is a caveat to all this. My hair was straight until I got what I affectionately call "The perm that never went away". I actually think it had more to do with puberty than the perm, but anyways.
Curly hair has been fun. For whatever reason, people never forget you. I remember a lot of people, but way more people remember me. People even think you are twins with other people who have curly hair (even if they are half-Lebanese!). That's a post for another day.
Now what
In other news, it was an exciting day for our friends, Jim & Jaime! I can't wait to post more about them in a few weeks!!
Wednesday, March 26, 2008
In case I'm not the only one who didn't know
Google Reader lets you add your favorite blogs to a "reader" list. Every day, I simply sign in and it instantly tells me which of "my" blogs have been updated and then it posts the update right there on the screen. Now, why didn't I think of that....or at least realize that someone already had. I must have been too busy clicking away from one blog to another. I hope this makes your blog reading a little more enjoyable.
Finally, I've asked Garet to guest blog (in other words to write some of his poetry!). He says he needs to be "inspired" to write, so let's help him out...any ideas?? He's written poetry about Levi's poop, so there is nothing too far fetched :).
Tuesday, March 25, 2008
Isn't she the cutest?
This journey has not been without its ups and downs. Guatemala has had some governing issues over adoption and little Fern has had some abandonment hearings. While they do not have a solid date, we are all praying that they can bring her home soon! We sent some pictures of Levi & Kara with them in hopes that she will recognize them when she gets here - how cool would that be?
It has been such a privilege to be a part of this journey with the Schroders and it has really opened our eyes to all the children that so desperately need parents in this world. I can think of no two better people than Bill & Melodie.
We are praying that they have an Internet connection while they are down there so we can be a part of the excitement. Join them on their journey and pray that all the paperwork, hearings and money falls into place quickly. Have a safe trip guys - give our love to Fern!
PS: Here is the link to the orphanage where Fernanda is: Amor del Nino
Monday, March 24, 2008
What happened to NYC?
Sunday, March 23, 2008
Martha Stewart would not be proud
Sunday mornings are always crazy around our house - if we get to church on time, it is a miracle...and I'm on staff - how sad is that?!?! I keep telling myself that it will get better when the kids are older. :) Anyway, we had a great service this morning and I have throughly cherished my time with my church family lately since we have missed so much being out of town and sick. We are starting a church-wide series next week that will be incorporated into our Life Groups called "No Perfect People Allowed". I've spent a lot of time preparing for the next few weeks and I can't wait to see what God has in store for our church through the messages.
Kara pooped all over her cute little dress (and me), and yes, that is chocolate all over Levi's face. Levi also got some "Cars" crocs which he insisted on wearing to church today. I'll have to post a picture of them later.
So, this picture turned out pretty cute.
Finally, here is our Easter Dinner! We are gladly accepting invitations for Easter Dinner next year :).
Saturday, March 22, 2008
Congrats to David & Megan!
The Easter Bunny isn't for everyone
Brad & Harrison, Garet & Levi - waiting for the start of the Easter Egg Hunt.
Friday, March 21, 2008
Our Kara
It all started the day we found out we were pregnant. Having just experienced a miscarriage, we were more than thrilled, until I threw up. Nothing about my pregnancy with her was easy - sickness, a mis-aligned pelvic bone and severe sciatica pain all led to a very long 9 months. I was ecstatic when my doctor let me be induced at 38 weeks in hopes of a "smaller" baby. Kara weighed in at 8 lbs - no preemie. The first few hours after she was born was up and down - the doctors went back and forth on whether or not to take her to the NICU - her lungs were too "sticky". Then they found a hole in her heart, then she was jaundice. It was literally one thing after another. Thankfully, she fought through all those issues and was able to come home with us a few days later.
After bringing her home, we had some good days and bad days - did I mention she is emotional? We had almost forgotten about the heart issue until her 4 month check-up. The doctor said, "I still hear the air moving through the heart". I was devestated. The "hole" was supposed to close up within a few weeks of her birth! So today, we met with the pediatric cardiologist. After doing an ultrasound, he concluded that she is OK. Thank you Lord!
We still have some things we have to work through with her...she measured in the 90% in height, but only the 15% in weight - not good proportions according to the doctor. So, we are being agressive with feedings and adding more solids early - hopefully she'll get some "thunder thighs" by her 6 month check-up!!!
Thank you to all of you who have prayed for her over the last few weeks. I have much to be thankful for - especially on this Good Friday as we remember the One who made the greatest sacrifice for me and you.
Thursday, March 20, 2008
Wednesday, March 19, 2008
Weekend in Detroit...
Happy St. Patrick's Day!
Sunday, March 16, 2008
The Inevitable has happened...
The kids both got me gifts...Kara got me a Shawn McDonald CD and Levi got me none other than a "Sally" car from the movie Cars. I wonder who is going to play with that one. :) My real gift is coming soon...a trip to the Dominican Republic - I can't wait!
We just put the kids to bed. As I was kissing Levi good-night, he reached up and touched my hair and said "I like your hair mommy". I thought that was so sweet until he said, "It looks like a bird". I'm not sure how to take that, but I love him anyway.
So far 30 hasn't been that bad. It has mostly involved Kara crying, but we'll get through it. Thanks to everyone who wished me a "Happy Birthday" today!
Saturday, March 15, 2008
Mourning the End of a Decade
- Started dating Garet
- Got Engaged
- Graduated from Auburn (BS Applied Math, Business Minor)
- Got Married
- Started my first real job (Tetra Tech)
- Made 2 trips to Europe and visited about 7 new states
- Became a Mom (Levi)
- Had a Daughter (Kara)
While I don't think I will ever pack as many "life changes" into one decade again, I'm sure each one will have a unique story of its own. I'm looking forward to sharing the next one with you!